We often talk of getting help to victims of abuse. And sometimes, talk is all we can do. Some forms of abuse push people past the edge of help, though we should never quit trying.
When it comes to domestic violence, the real perpetrators are adults and the real victims are children.
Until we start to understand this, and act on it in good faith, we will achieve nothing more than further pitting men and women against each other, and leaving more children devastated in the wake of their battles.